However, I did watch the live tweet that NYC Pride did with photos and Vine videos. From my desk I cheered for GLSEN and PFLAG and Trevor Project and all the other great organizations that were out there today. I smiled watching Dykes on Bikes lead off the march. I loved how generous the community is to invite a douchebag like the mayor to their party. Maybe some day his stuff straight friends will reciprocate the courtesy. We don't care though. Our parties are the best.
What really made my heart swell was photos of s-s families, especially after the momentous SCOTUS ruling this week. So on this Pride weekend...44 years after the Stonewall riots started the road to equality...I ask all the opposition for INTELLIGENT responses to why YOU (personally) are against marriage and family equality.
Now here's some caveats:
If you're going to use the argument that it somehow demeans heterosexual marriage you have to tell me exactly how. That answer is so vague it's comical. How are two men or two women signing a legal agreement that will protect them and their families affecting your marriage?
You can't use any church arguments. First, we have freedom of and from religion in this country and these laws are not affecting your church, it's congregation and/or how it worships. You are still free to go to what ever place you go to fellowship with people who follow the same religious doctrine as you and pray and sing and do whatever else you do that does not involve the killing or maiming of other humans (sadly animals and vegetation do not have that same protection). Also, LGBT people are not asking for WEDDINGS!! They are asking for a legal contract. A piece of paper, signed in front of and by a legally recongnized witness and sealed by a notary.
"It's not natural/normal". Natural? Look at the rest of the animal kingdom and you will find same-sex and bisexual behavior. "Normal"? Who said "normal" was good. Just because cultures started and have continued on the premise that being a conforming follower is a good thing doesn't mean that is so. If you're a follower then there are "leaders" and those leaders are not necessarily in those positions because they have your or humanities best interests in mind. Most of them are manipulators. They've learned and honed their charisma to use it against people. They're all on power trips and you are just feeding their egos. It takes far more intelligence and raw courage to be the individual you were created to be. baaahhhhh baaaaahhhh sheeple.
"But what about the children". This is addressed on two levels. The inability for two people of the same gender to procreate and the raising of children by a s-s couple. In an era of horrendous over-population, having alternative families willing to adopt kids, especially the harder to place children, this is an amazing option. I know many gay and lesbian couples who have adopted or fostered children over the age of 3 (after they're not cute little babes and toddlers). I also am aware of non-traditional families that have adopted special-needs and crisis kids. With all the current bullshit from the "Pro Life" (read Pro fetus) folks, if they get their way and we have all the babies...someone's going to have to raise these kids because a large percentage of them will end up "in the system". Today all the pics I saw on the streets of Manhattan of non-traditional families, those kids were loved and loved in return. They were genuinely happy to be out and about with their two dads or two moms or mom and transgender dad or whatever. They were dressed in clean clothes that were in very good condition. Their hair and bodies were clean and brushed...ok except for the ones who had already had a popsicle, ice cream, candy or drink that dripped on them. They were smiling. They were happy. Props to queer parents of little tikes because their kids were either riding on shoulders or piggy-back, holding hands or in a stroller. How many straight parents I want to smack in the grocery store parking lot cuz their 5-year-old is running out into traffic and not once does the adult grab the kid's hand or put them in a shopping cart. Next argument?
I will give credit where credit is due if you can actually give me a really intelligent argument as to why and how marriage/family equality is harmful to YOU!
Peace and HAPPY PRIDE EVERYBODY!!